SOMA Living December 2025

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The votes are in, and this year’s Halloween spirit was off the charts! After tallying hundreds of online votes, we’re excited to announce a 1st place tie — two homes captured the community’s imagination with the exact same number of votes! Tied for 1st Place • ​16 Hart Drive N, South Orange • ​255 Scotland Rd, South Orange Congratulations to the 2025 MAPSOSCARY Winners

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MEET THE LA FALCE-FACCHINEI FAMILY

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When Joe Facchinei and Joe LaFalce first met, it was through a social platform that now feels like a relic of the early internet. “We met on Friendster,” Joe L laughs. “Pre-Myspace, pre-Facebook, it was like the dawn of social media.” They had a mutual friend, creating the connection that sparked their first date. Timing wasn’t right then, but fate intervened years later when they bumped into each other outside Mary’s Fish Camp in the West Village. “He had just picked up frozen yogurt,” Joe F recalls, “and I was on the phone with a friend.” “We went on another date and we’ve been together ever since.” Joe L adds with a grin: “It was meant to be. Rainbows and lollipops from there on out.” As their careers flourished in New York City, they began to dream about what life could look like beyond Manhattan. Joe L spent years in media, including at Time Inc., shaping digital strategies for brands like People, Entertainment Weekly and InStyle before pivoting to fintech with Afterpay. “I miss media, but tech is thrilling, fast paced and big ideas,” he says. Joe F’s path was equally impressive, with nearly two decades at Gucci leading partner marketing for the brand. “It was intense, exciting and very rewarding,” he shares. But as their family grew, Joe F felt drawn to a career that offered balance and a community connection, leading him to real estate with Sotheby’s. He now sees this as the perfect fit. “I wanted balance but also a new challenge,” he explains. “And now I work right in the center of South Orange. It feels so small town in the best way.” This has also allowed Joe F to become more involved locally, serving as co-chair of events for the Marshall PTA and as a Vice President of the Montrose Park Historic District Association.

Their move from Manhattan to SOMA was a thoughtful decision. “We

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wanted inclusivity, diversity, a place where our family would feel at home,” Joe L says. Joe F adds, “We looked in Westchester and other parts of New Jersey, but SOMA stood out. It’s open and welcoming.” Proximity to Joe F’s family in Summit was also a big factor, and friends in Maplewood gave them a glimpse of what life could be. “We found our people here,” Joe L notes. The journey to parenthood brought surprises along the way. “We planned to marry and then adopt,” Joe F recalls. “But Margot came sooner than expected. We had a shotgun wedding so we’d be officially married for her arrival.” Both daughters, Margot now nine and Georgia five, were adopted as newborns. Georgia was born in Florida in March 2020, which added a pandemic twist. “We drove to Florida when Covid was new and masks were scarce,” Joe F says. Margot is athletic and creative, with a love for soccer and piano. “She’s spirited, full of energy, a little leader,” Joe F beams. Georgia is equally dynamic and shines in her own way, passionate about dance and tennis. “They’re high-energy kids, our house is always buzzing,” Joe L says. Their bond is classic sisterhood, best friends one minute and squabbling the next. “But there’s so much love,” Joe F adds. Life in SOMA has given them the community they hoped for. “Kids run from yard to yard, it’s idyllic,” Joe F explains. They spend much of their summer at Orange Lawn, and visit Joe L’s family in upstate New York often, including stops in Saratoga to see the races. Traditions include annual trips to Provincetown, weekends at the Jersey Shore and cozy movie nights. “We both love to entertain and I love to cook,” Joe L shares. “Bolognese is my specialty, it’s simple but everyone loves it.” Local favorites include SOMA Sweets for ice cream, Words bookstore for the girls, Jackie & Sons for scones, and Ariyoshi for sushi. “Always avocado rolls for the girls,” Joe L adds. For the Joes, South Orange is more than a zip code. “We’ve built a chosen family here,” Joe L reflects. “The people make this experience incredible.” Joe F agrees. “Our life feels exactly as we hoped, kids free to roam and neighbors who feel like family. We’re lucky, and we know it.”

As Joe L puts it, “We wanted a home where our family could thrive, and we found it.”

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HEALTH & WELLNESS Ditching Wellness Culture for Holiday Joy & Connection

Shared Meals as Love: View food as a medium for connection, not a hurdle. Savor tradition, experience, and the people. 2. Community as Your Anti-Wellness Support Wellness culture often isolates. The holidays invite us to lean into community. Reject the “Should”: Give yourself— and others—radical permission to enjoy without judgment. Move for Unity: Skip punishing workouts. Try a group walk or a dance off. Movement as play and connection is healing. Movement as penance is exhausting. 3. Radical Self-Trust True self-care means trusting your body’s wisdom. Stay curious, not judgmental. This season, remember: This season, remember that your connection to your body and those around you is your greatest bio hack.

The holidays often bring pressure from Wellness Culture, urging us to chase “guilt-free” options and detox plans. This mindset fosters food anxiety and burnout, disrupting not only our joy but also our nervous system, blood sugar balance, and overall sense of wellbeing. This relentless focus on restriction risks stripping the season of its true nourishment: joy, connection, and community. Wellness isn’t just about what’s on your plate—it’s about your relationship with yourself and those around you. This year, shift your focus from the transactional (calories) to the transformational (moments shared). 1. Connection Is the Ultimate Nutrient The most underrated element of health during the holidays is human connection. Prioritize relationships over food analysis. Be Present, Not Perfect: Put your phone away. Listen deeply. Share laughter. That sense of belonging supports long term health more than any single food.

Callie is a licensed registered dietitian nutritionist specializing in women’s health and wellbeing, holds a masters of public health from NYU and is a certified personal trainer. She has served on the board of the Greater New York Dietetics Association and has been featured in Huffington Post, USNews, TheThirty, Insider, Healthline, Elite Daily and the Hormonally Yours Podcast. Follow Callie on Instagram, Linkedin and TikTok

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RECIPE OF THE MONTH

PECAN PRALINES Prep Time: 5 mins Baking Time: 15 mins• Yield: 40 candies This indulgent candy is perfect for holiday gifting. Creamy and sweet, with a nutty crunch, who wouldn’t be thrilled to find a box of pecan pralines under the tree?

INSTRUCTIONS

1. Line 2 sheet pans with parchment paper, set aside. 2. Combine sugars, butter, salt and heavy cream in a medium heavy bottom saucepan. 3. Bring to a boil over high heat and then attach a candy thermometer to the side of the sauce pan. 4. Reduce the heat to medium and continue to cook until the mixture reaches 238 degrees. 5. Remove from the heat and whisk until mixture loses its sheen and becomes creamy in texture, about 10 mins by hand. 6. Stir in the vanilla and pecans. Drop tablespoons of the mixture onto the lined sheet pans and allow to spread slightly.

INGREDIENTS

2 cups packed light brown sugar 1/2 cup sugar 6 Tbsp unsalted butter 1 tsp kosher salt

7. Cool to room temperature and store on wax paper in an airtight container. RECIPE NOTES Special Equipment: candy thermometer Pralines will keep for up to 5 days stored in an airtight container stored at room temperature.

1 cup heavy cream 1 tsp vanilla extract

2 cups coarsely chopped pecans toasting is optional

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CANNABIS OF THE MONTH

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With the season of giving upon us—and all the joyful chaos that comes with it—December’s Strain of the Month invites you to slow down and savor a moment for yourself with the dec adent Baked Alaska x Georgia Pie by Cookies. This small batch flower, which tests at 23.75% THC, offers a dessert-like aroma and a rich, layered flavor profile that feels perfectly at home during the holidays, evoking cozy kitchens, sweet treats, and winter warmth. Whether you’re winding down af ter a long day of festivities or simply seeking a bit of seasonal serenity, this hybrid brings a comforting, uplifting character that complements the magic of December. Enjoy responsibly, relax deeply, and let a little sweetness brighten your winter. Written by: Juvens Exantus, Retail Manager, Elevated Canna Boss Lady Dispensary

About the Dispensary: Elevated CannaBoss Lady Licensed Dispensary is located in Maplewood Village at 9 Highland Place. Owner Jill Cohen launched her first flower brand, CannaBoss Lady’s Pre-roll Trio, which includes three targeted experiences in one pretty little pack—giving you flower for both business and pleasure! Jill is a local SOMA resident, cannabis enthusiast, educator, advocate, and philanthropist. She has curated a luxury cannabis experience for those with refined tastes. Dispensary, wellness shop, and home delivery available! 9 Highland Place, Maplewood, NJ. Parking lot adjacent.

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The title of this year’s field show was “Let it Be”, but the Columbia High School Marching Band was not content to do just that! Despite the challenges that come with growing in size to 86 members and adding 25 rookies, over the course of the season, the marching band mastered a complex field show. Performing it with increasing finesse as the season progressed, the Cougars earned improved scores as well as sectional accolades. Under the direction of CHS Director of Bands Peter Bauer, Assistant Director Kaelyn Passeri and Instructional Staff D’Sherrick Williams (Color Guard), Max well Winters (Percussion) and Allyson Dalton (Visual and Hornline), the “Pride of Columbia” delighted football fans with their half-time show and stand tunes all season long. Their strong work ethic culminated in an impressive perfor mance in the US Bands State Championship on November 1 in Robbinsville, NJ, with the band’s highest score of the season — color guard achieving 5th place and percussion achieving 6th place. Nice work Cougars! ATHLETE OF THE MONTH SPONSORED BY BASS FAMILY CHIROPRACTIC CHS MARCHING BAND

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MUSICIAN OF THE MONTH

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GRAYSON SIMMONS: A YOUNG GUITARIST WITH A BIG FUTURE AHEAD

At just 14 years old, Colum bia High School freshman Grayson Simmons is already making waves with his gui tar. With nearly four years of experience under his belt, Grayson’s musical journey is marked not by a single mo ment of inspiration, but by a growing fascination with the instrument itself. “I remember hearing songs with cool gui

tar riffs and feeling like guitar was something I wanted to learn,” he shares. That curiosity has blossomed into a deep appreciation for the mechanics of music—how instruments work, how songs are structured, and how rhythm and mel ody come together. Grayson’s passion isn’t limited to strings. He’s got his sights set on drums next, drawn by the challenge of mastering rhythm, tempo, and timing. “It seems really fun,” he says, with the kind of enthusiasm that suggests he’ll be picking up sticks sooner rather than later. When he’s not practicing guitar, Grayson is focused on schoolwork, especially math, his current favorite subject. Balancing academics and music is no small feat, but he manages it with quiet dedication. His playlist reflects his evolving taste and technical skill. Van Halen, John Mayer, and Stevie Ray Vaughan top his list—not just for their legendary status, but for the complexity and joy they bring to learning guitar. “Their songs are so well thought-out and fun to play,” Grayson explains, showing a maturity that goes beyond his years. Grayson Simmons may still be in the early stages of his musical journey, but with his thoughtful approach and gen uine love for learning, he’s already playing in tune with a bright future.

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REAL ESTATE SOMA’S DICKENS VILLAGE CELEBRATION

The Maplewood Dickens Village is a treasured, decades-long tradition in the SOMA community. For 65 years, Ricalton Square has been trans formed into a display of miniature homes depicting classic scenes from Charles Dickens’s: A Christmas Carol. Each home is decorated with an tique toys, warm light, and festive furnishings that invite visitors to peer through their windows. A Christmas Carol became a sensation when it was first published in 1843 and helped make “Merry Christmas” a common phrase after the book’s success. I have been a longtime sponsor of the cel ebration and will be there to join the festivities.

The tradition extends beyond the Dickens display. On three Saturdays, starting December 6th, Ricalton Square comes alive with complementary activities, including Santa’s arrival via fire truck, a formal tree lighting ceremony, live musical performances, horse-drawn wagon rides, and a petting zoo. On December 16th, Rabbi Sholom Bogomilsky from the Maplewood Jewish Center will light the menorah in Ricalton Square. So, don’t be a Scrooge. Come see Santa, watch the tree and menorah lighting, listen to a free holiday concert, and, of course, enjoy the holiday spirit with Maplewood’s Dickens Village.

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“Wow! Gorgeous, just gorgeous!” exclaimed my wife. And as much as I hoped that compliment was directed at me, it wasn’t. We were standing in a freshly renovated kitchen I had just completed. “Thanks,” I said. She smiled. “I love how everything came together—the tiles, cabinet colors, and paint. They harmonize so well.” “And the countertops,” I added. “Yes! They work beautifully in the space and feel so different from the usual,” she said. “And seeing all the elements we picked out ahead of time (as seen in the August ’25 issue) really helped. Buying everything first and laying it out before installation made a big difference.” “I love how you grouped everything into zones,” she

continued. “The storage zone with the pantry and fridge is perfect.” “I tried to make it as functional as possible. You know I love a well-zoned kitchen!” (as seen in the July ’25 issue) “I LOVED when we did our kitchen,” she said. “It changed our lives—the way we entertain now, or just have great meals with our boys at the kitchen table.” “And it’s gorgeous,” I added. “Very,” she smiled. “And for all the money spent, we’ll get it back when we sell.” “I think everyone deserves a new kitchen!” she proclaimed. “Agreed,” I said. “And you know my phone number is just below…”

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INTERIOR DESIGN

THE HOLIDAY EDIT: MAKING MAGIC ON YOUR OWN TERMS

Okay, decor lovers… let’s talk holiday traditions— especially when the season looks different than you imagined. This year, I’m celebrating quietly with just my husband and son. I’d hoped to travel and see more family in Illinois, but I’m still immunocompromised after a bone marrow transplant in August. And while I’m thrilled to say I’ve officially hit Day 100 and am in full remission (!!!), big gatherings just aren’t safe for me yet. Thank goodness for FaceTime. Growing up, we decorated as a family while Johnny Mathis played in the background and my mom added greens, bows, and lights to literally everything. It was magic. I’ve kept that tradition alive—plus added a LOT more Christmas balls (I NEED COLOR!). My mom also gave each of us (my sis, my bro, and me) a mini themed But different does NOT mean less special.

tree for our bedrooms. This year, I put a small pink tree in our sunroom… because I’ve always wanted one. Because I needed a little whimsy. And because being ALIVE is a celebration. The past eight months have been a whirlwind. If you’re new here, I was diagnosed with leukemia in March (curveball!). So this holiday season feels different… it wasn’t guaranteed. But you know what? Nothing is. So bring out the tinsel. Hang the weird ornaments. Light every candle. Make your home joyful—for you. Because memories matter. And this season, that’s more than enough.

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POWER OF SLEEP Tech billionaire Brian Johnson has spent the last 5 years working with a team of over 30 physicians researching the best strategies to slow, or even reverse, the aging process. After spending millions of dollars and submitting to constant medical monitoring, Johnson says the most important takeaway from his research is simple – “A good night’s sleep is the single most important element to counteract the aging process.” Sleep rejuvenates the body, boosts brain function, powers the immune system, and regulates hormones. “It’s the foundation for well-being and longevity,” Johnson asserts. On the other hand, sleep deprivation impairs and diminishes cognitive functions, slows reflexes, and gives rise to poor decision-making. It’s linked to heart disease, diabetes, obesity, anxiety, depression and weakened immunity. Johnson lays out the following tips for prioritizing restorative sleep in your life: • Reframe your identity; define yourself as a professional sleeper • Make sleep your #1 priority; nothing influences your conscious existence more.

• Plan your day around sleep; it’s the most important appointment in your calendar. • Get buy-in and support from others by explaining your priorities. • Avoid heavy meals less than 4 hours before bedtime; they raise your core temperature and resting heart rate. • Create a 60-minute, screen-free wind-down routine prior to bedtime; read, journal, stretch, meditate, or take a warm bath. • Practice mindfulness or deep breathing exercises; this has proven to be more effective than sleep medications. These are just a few of the tips Johnson offers to improve your sleep. Check back next month for more!

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SPACE ORGANIZING

In this month of overscheduling (have you considered that clutter extends beyond the physical into your to-do and to-attend lists?), potential overspending, and plenty of joyful celebrations, as we embrace the fun of it all, we should also channel our fiercest de-clutterer and run a good accountability check on our possessions. These three impactful areas will leave your home with more room for the spirit of the holidays to come:

inspired to keep editing, go ahead and tackle tools, clothes, kitchenware—or whatever you tend to receive most often or add to your wish list. • ​Is your guest room an unofficial storage unit? If I had a penny for every time we get a call to “please get the guest room ready because my in-laws are coming,” and that room has become a massive catch-all… By tackling your guest room (or guest room equivalent), you’ll kill two birds with one stone: reclaim usable space and lift Rebeca Mosher, CEO and Founder of Space Composer, LLC With over fifteen years in professional organizing, Rebeca Mosher applies her expertise in event production management, stage performance, and music composition to manage move logistics and create customized organizing systems. These systems make daily life efficient and harmonious.

• ​Edit your holiday décor. As you unpack all the seasonal decorations from last year, it’s a great moment to assess what works—both aesthetically and mechanically—what doesn’t, and what (let’s be honest) will never be used. This makes for a much easier cleanup once the season is over. • ​Take a ruthless pass at categories like toys. You’ll need to make room for “all that’s coming.” If you’re feeling

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COLUMBIA’S LIFE BEYOND

FUTURE STUDENT REMARKS, OBLIGATIONS, AND SNAP CUTS

If I could speak for every high school student in the world, I would begin by sharing the intense pressure we feel to achieve “success”—a concept increasingly measured by numbers: grades, test scores, and résumés. Whether or not college is the path we envision, most of us are immersed in a curriculum that equates future success with academic performance and extracurricular involvement. In this environment, volunteer work becomes not only a requirement but a reflection of leadership and personal growth. At Columbia High School, the National Honor Society (NHS) is the cornerstone of student-led service. It promotes activities ranging from writing kind notes to middle schoolers and playing games in the Step-Up program, to tutoring through Achieve. NHS fosters academic excellence and integrity, encouraging students to give back to the MAPSO community and embrace service as a

vital part of education. For many, these experiences blend classroom lessons with real-world impact. However, once students venture beyond school grounds, volunteering can feel daunting. Programs like MEND and the Our Lady of Sorrows Food Pantry offer abundant opportunities to serve, extending the values NHS instills. Yet recent cuts to the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) under the Trump Administration have made it harder for these organizations to meet growing needs. Students eager to help often face financial barriers when asked to donate supermarket goods. Still, service work outside of school remains deeply relevant and impactful in the SOMA community. Columbia students learn that success is not solely defined by academic rigor or activity logs, but by adaptability and action—turning obligations into relationships and making a meaningful difference in the lives of others

Hatcher Niles is a junior at Columbia High School and a proud member of the class of 2027. This school year, he’s excited about the new FinTech club he is a co-founder of, is finding more ways to volunteer in our community, and is gearing up for college application season.

COALITION ON RACE

25TH ANNUAL DR. MARTIN LUTHER KING, JR. OBSERVANCE & LUMINARY LIGHTING

& Garden’s exhibit on the history of enslaved people in New Jersey, from 17th century Dutch settlement through the Civil War. To close this important day, we ask all to participate in the Luminary Lighting Project outside of homes across SOMA as a sign of peace, hope and solidarity. Interested in being a neighborhood leader or purchasing kits for a large group? Email MLKLuminaryProject@

The South Orange/Maplewood Community Coalition on Race invites the community to gather for our annual Dr. King Observance, Monday, Jan. 19, 2026, 2 p.m. at Columbia High School, as we honor his legacy and renew our shared commitment to equity and inclusion. This year’s theme, “Do Not Erase Our History,” calls us to remember that truth, memory and historical understanding are essential to building the Beloved Community.

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The event will feature keynote speaker Dr. Khalil Gibran Muhammad, the inaugural Professor of African American Studies and Public Affairs at Princeton University and director of the Institutional Antiracism and Accountability Project. There will also be readings from Dr. King’s writings, performances from Columbia High School Chorus and Special Dance, and reflections from local clergy. Following the observance, visit Durand-Hedden House

Nancy Gagnier, Executive Director of the South Orange/ Maplewood Community Coalition on Race, develops pro-integrative strategies to support racial equity and inclusion.

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FINANCIAL FOCUS GENEROSITY MEETS STRATEGY: TAX-SAVVY CHARITABLE GIVING Giving to charity feels good—and with smart planning, it can also be financially beneficial. Understanding how charitable tax deductions work helps you support causes you care about while maximizing your impact. To claim a charitable deduction, you must itemize your tax return. In 2025, the standard deduction is $31,500 for married couples filing jointly and $15,750 for single filers. You’ll only benefit from itemizing if your total deductions, including charitable gifts, exceed these thresholds. If you donate regularly but don’t typically surpass the standard deduction, consider “stacking” your donations. For example, instead of giving $5,000 annually, you might donate $15,750 in one year to qualify for itemization, then take the standard deduction in subsequent years. Ensure your donation qualifies. Contributions must go to IRS-recognized charities. Donations to individuals, even those in need, aren’t deductible. Also, if you receive something in return—like concert tickets—only the portion exceeding the value of the benefit is deductible. The IRS limits deductions based on your adjusted gross income (AGI): up to 60% for cash donations and 30% for appreciated assets. Excess amounts can be carried forward for up to five years. Strategic giving matters. Donating appreciated stocks can offer additional tax advantages by avoiding capital gains taxes. Keep proper documentation, especially for donations over $250 or non-cash gifts exceeding $5,000. Charitable giving starts with the heart—but thoughtful planning ensures your generosity goes further. Consult a tax professional to align your giving strategy with your financial goals.

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FROM THE DOCTOR

CHIROPRACTIC CARE AFTER BACK SURGERY?

If you’ve recently had back surgery or you’re discussing your options to do so with a surgeon, know that you are in good company. Close to 500,000 Americans have surgery for low back pain alone each year. According to the Mayo clinic, back surgery is rarely necessary and should be considered only when other options have been explored. Generally, there are four types of back surgery performed: 1. Discectomy, 2. Laminectomy, 3. Spinal Fusion and 4. Artificial Lumbar Disc surgery. While surgery is often the last resort when less invasive treatments don’t relieve pain, surgery on its own doesn’t immediately relieve the pain either. That’s why it’s recommended that other treatments be used along with surgery to relieve your pain and help to improve your quality of life. But is it safe? When is it safe? Before talking about when it might be safe to see a chiropractor after surgery, it’s important to know that every patient and every procedure is different. The more extensive the procedure, the more vital it is to give your body time to heal before you begin any kind of chiropractic care. However, a good rule of thumb is to discuss with your surgeon the type of care suggested by the Chiropractor or have the doctors talk to each other which is what our office does. It is important to know what procedures or adjustments your Doctor of Chiropractic wants to perform. Post surgically we would typically use a computerized, comfortable and consistent instrument style adjustment which is gentle and effective. This instrumentation can also be used to relax and stimulate the nerves and muscles above and below the procedure. Other forms of care that can be administered prior to a considered back surgery which has proven successful in many cases are: Spinal decompression therapy; flexion distraction manual therapy; radial pulsed shock wave therapy; cold laser therapy and physical therapy in conjunction with a specific chiropractic adjustment. If you’re on the road to recovery from back surgery or considering back surgery and you would like to explore how chiropractic services can help you get back on your feet quicker, the experts at South Orange Chiropractic Center are ready to help. Contact one of us today to discuss how we can help you feel better quickly.

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FROM THE DOCTOR DECEMBER: THE SEASON OF GIVING — GIVE THE GIFT OF HEALTH If I could speak for every high school student in the world, I would begin by sharing the intense pressure we feel to achieve “success”—a concept increasingly measured by numbers: grades, test scores, and résumés. Whether or not college is the path we envision, most of us are immersed in a curriculum that equates future success with academic performance and extracurricular involvement. In this environment, volunteer work becomes not only a requirement but a reflection of leadership and personal growth. At Columbia High School, the National Honor Society (NHS) is the cornerstone of student-led service. It promotes activities ranging from writing kind notes to middle schoolers and playing games in the Step-Up program, to tutoring through Achieve. NHS fosters academic excellence and integrity, encouraging students to give back to the MAPSO community and embrace service as a vital part of education. For many, these experiences blend classroom lessons with real-world impact. However, once students venture beyond school grounds, volunteering can feel daunting. Programs like MEND and the Our Lady of Sorrows Food Pantry offer abundant opportunities to serve, extending the values NHS instills. Yet recent cuts to the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) under the Trump Administration have made it harder for these organizations to meet growing needs. Students eager to help often face financial barriers when asked to donate supermarket goods. Still, service work outside of school remains deeply relevant and impactful in the SOMA community. Columbia students learn that success is not solely defined by academic rigor or activity logs, but by adaptability and action—turning obligations into relationships and making a meaningful difference in the lives of others

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FROM THE THERAPIST BY CHAMIN AJJAN, LCSW, A-CBT, CST The holidays can be a beautiful and magical time of year. For many, they bring warmth, connection, gratitude, and wonder. For others, this season can stir feelings of isolation, dread, or overwhelm. Most of us fall somewhere in between. No matter which experience feels true for you, stress is often woven into this time of year—even when it’s something you look forward to. One supportive step is simply pausing to acknowledge how you feel. Naming your emotional experience can be restorative. It helps you understand what you need and gives you the clarity to move through the season with intention rather than autopilot. This time of year, encourages gratitude and caring for others. It’s just as important to offer that same care to yourself. A simple way to do that is through a short Loving Kindness Meditation, which builds compassion and connection. Try this three-part practice: Sit comfortably. Close your eyes or soften your gaze. Notice your breath. When ready, recall a loved one and silently repeat: May you be safe and protected. May you live with ease and kindness. May you feel joy. Next, recall someone you find difficult: May you be safe and protected. May you live with ease and kindness. May you feel joy. Finally, offer the same phrases to yourself: May I be safe and protected. May I live with ease and kindness. May I feel joy. Take a final breath and notice any shift. If you prefer a guided meditation, you can also explore my offerings at https://www.youtube.com/@ chaminajjanpsychotherapy1784. Happy Holidays.

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MORE ARTISTIC GEMS At Jespy House, I admired stunning resin jewelry and bowls crafted by talented artists. Later, in a cozy backyard gallery, I met Kevin O’Connell, who paints the iconic South Orange gaslights. He began painting them as gifts for friends twenty years ago and now sells them to the public. I couldn’t resist buying a mini canvas! A DELICIOUS BREAK Mid-tour, I grabbed lunch at Medusa Greek Street Food. Their halloumi gyro? Absolutely delicious. HALLOWEEN MAGIC Just days before the Studio Tour, I explored the MAPSOSCARY Google Map tour, which features homes decked out in Halloween decorations. The creativity was off the charts! MORE TO EXPLORE The best part? SOMA is full of tours and activities like these. I can’t wait to discover more and share them with you soon.

Hi! It’s me, Skylar Mass again—and I’m back to share more of what I love about SOMA. This time, I want to tell you about some fun and inspiring tours I recently took around town. STUDIO TOUR SOMA This self-guided event lets you follow a map to meet local artists, explore their work, and even purchase pieces directly from them.

What makes it special is the chance to step inside galleries, businesses, and even homes to connect with the artists themselves. One highlight was meeting Helena Chywski at The Loft at SOPAC. Helena has synesthesia-a neurological trait where senses intertwine. I’d read about it in the book A Mango Shaped Space, by Wendy Mass, so I was thrilled to meet someone with this gift. When Helena hears sound, she sees color. After listening to my voice, she described seeing navy, purple, magenta, pink, silver, and hints of green and yellow. We talked for nearly an hour! Her painting “New York Pigeon” was one of my favorites.

Skylar Mass is a proud SOMA/MapSO kid most often found at an ice rink, reading a book, or hanging out with family and friends. She has lived in SOMA for half her life! Photo credit: Jessica Reiss Photography

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HOLIDAY FESTIVITIES IN MAPLEWOOD VILLAGE HOLIDAY GUIDE

For over 60 years, the Maplewood Village Alliance has brought the beloved Dickens Village and the spirit of A Christmas Carol to life in Ricalton Square. Miniature houses depict charming scenes from the classic tale, creating a magical backdrop for seasonal traditions, shopping, and community cheer. Opening Day: Saturday, December 6, 2025 1–4 PM Santa arrives at 1 PM for visits, holiday music fills the afternoon, and the tree lighting begins at 4 PM, with remarks from the Maplewood Town Council and the Maplewood Village Alliance. A seasonal menorah will also be on display for Hanukkah. Additional Dates: Saturdays, December 13 and 20 1–4 PM Enjoy visits with Santa, horse-drawn wagon rides, a petting zoo, and a 2 PM holiday concert at the Burgdorff Center. Dickens Village is a perfect outing for all ages. It’s also an ideal time to explore Maplewood Village’s unique shops and cozy eateries. Grab a warm drink, do some holiday shopping, and soak in the festive charm. The event is free, family-friendly, and a cherished celebration of Maplewood’s historic character.

Sponsored by generous local businesses and organized by dedicated volunteers—Ellen Davenport, Kathryn Porter, and Veronica McLeavey-Fisher—Dickens Village continues to thrive through community spirit. The event is ADA/stroller accessible and weather dependent. For updates, follow @MaplewoodVillageNJ on Instagram. More details: maplewoodvillagenj.com/dickens-village Contact: ErinRose Baldry, Executive Director maplewoodvillagenj@gmail.com

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