SOMA Living November 2025

Cuffing Season When You’re Already Cuffed Cuffing season is here, and for those of us already in relationships, it can feel like we’ve got this one in the bag. Built-in cuddle buddy? Check. But if your summer lacked sizzle, you might notice the chill creeping into more than just the air. Cuffing season can feel like a rude reminder that something is missing to some. But it can also serve as a loving nudge to re-ignite connection with your partner. Here’s how to recuff and turn up the heat. 1. Talk about it. You can’t read each other’s minds, even after years together. Ask how your partner feels about your connection and share your own thoughts. Vulnerability is a turn-on and can deepen intimacy. 2. Schedule it. Planning doesn’t kill the mood; it builds anticipation. When you know a romantic night is coming, the flirtation can start long before it begins. 3. Get creative. Try new ways to connect. Share fantasies, experiment, and keep a sense of humor. And remember not to yuck your partner’s yum. This season, don’t let singles have all the cuffing fun. Reclaim your cuffed status, reconnect with your partner, and stay warm together long after the cold weather fades. FROM THE THERAPIST BY CHAMIN AJJAN, LCSW, A-CBT, CST CROSSWORD PUZZLE on Page 17 Answer Key:

Stay connected to yourself and the ones you love. Care for your mind, heart, and whole being.

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