SOMA Living May 2023

VOL.8-5 MAY 2023 MAGAZINE

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PUBLICATION TEAM

FACES IN THE CROWD

The moon was full, pink and in Libra; the perfect time to look inward and reflect. Cannaboss Lady owner, Jill Cohen, addresses attendees at a recent Moon ritual in April. “A moon circle is a sisterhood of like-minded women joining forces and effort to embrace their divine truth and share in healing and transformation.”

Publisher: Michael E. Goldberg

Editor: Karen L. Driggs

Contributors: Cathy Roma, Dr. Stephen Levine, Gary T. Jones, Dr. Daniel Roig, Director of Human Resources: Fudge P. Goldberg

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Meet Akashi. He’s 4 years old, a rescue from Puerto Rico, and is a mix of husky, shepherd, chow-chow, and chihuahua. He’s a friend to many. He was discovered in the arms of a “foster parent” on the streets in Puerto Rico and rescued. We adopted him when he was 10 months old. Akashi Yomo is named after a Japanese whisky we love (Akashi) and Yomo is a beloved Puetro Rican reggaeton singer. This is our attempt to honor his heritage.

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THE GALDI FAMILY

Photography by Jamie Meier

The Galdi family’s journey began in 2006 when Pavitra and Antony met through a mutual friend (during Pavitra’s senior year at Boston University). After graduation, Pavitra moved to NYC where Antony lived and soon their friendship turned into more and they started their lives a couple. In 2012, the couple had a week-long wedding celebration in Turks and Caicos, honoring their love with both an Indian and American ceremony. They continued to grow their life together in Brooklyn, where they welcomed their first child, a boy named Kai. The family is proud of their mixed cultural backgrounds and appreciates the range of cultures among residents of Maplewood. The Galdi’s celebrate festivals like Holi and Diwali and enjoy eating Indian food together that Antony cooks. They also plan to travel to India to visit Pavitra’s grandparents. Like many, the Galdi’s experienced their fair share of hardships over the past few years. After moving to Maplewood, they quickly learned that Rumi was not hitting her milestones and their journey into early intervention began. They eventually discovered that Rumi has a rare genetic neuro developmental disorder called USP7. Despite the challenges, the family has remained positive and hopeful, and Rumi is making great progress with the help of therapy, doctors, and the unwavering love and support of her family and community. Her brother, Kai is her biggest cheerleader. He adores his sister and to him, “She’s just Rumi. The same old Rumi that she’s always been:

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a happy girl who loves to watch Blippi, dance around the house, and play with dolls.” The family has found support and a sense of community here from a group that a local mom started on facebook called SOMA Peer Support and Action Network for IEP/504/Ei families. Pavitra shared, “There are many neurodivergent children that live here and they should have an equal space in SOMA. The members of this Facebook group are doing meaningful work and making a difference to many people here in town. We are so proud to be a part of it.” Pavitra plans to return to work in a school one day, but for now, she is focused on being an advocate for her daughter and fighting to get her the opportunities she deserves. The Galdi family’s story is a beautiful testament to the power of resilience and community. In Maplewood, they found a place to call home, where they can raise their children within a varied and accepting neighborhood. Pavitra reflects, “I would have never imagined this is where I’d be or what my life would be like - if you asked me 10 years ago - but this is exactly where we are meant to be. Maplewood definitely feels like home.” They credit their ability to overcome challenges to their close-knit family and the wonderful people they have met along the way.

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CREATING A POLLINATOR GARDEN IN SOUTH ORANGE/MAPLEWOOD

Q: WHAT IS A POLLINATOR GARDEN? A: A pollinator garden is designed to contain plants with large, compound inflorescent flowers to provide food and shelter to animals (bees, birds, butterflies, moths, wasps, bats, and small mammals) that pollinate plants that support the local ecosystem. Q: WHAT ARE SOME OF THE BENEFITS OF A POLLINATOR GARDEN? A: While there are many benefits to a pollinator garden, the biggest for the busy homeowner is the low maintenance they require while still adding beauty to your landscape. Q: WHAT POLLINATOR PLANTS ARE NATIVE TO SOUTH ORANGE/MAPLEWOOD? A: The plants primarily used to create a pollinator garden in the South Orange/Maplewood area are Joe Pye Weed, Milkweed, Golden Rod, Salvia, Agastache, Butterfly Bush, Cone Flower, Daisy. Q: WHY SHOULD I CONSIDER PLANTING A POLLINATOR GARDEN? A: You should consider planting a pollinator garden not only for the beauty it will create in your landscape, but for the essential role pollinator insects play in the success of any garden whether it be a flower garden or a vegetable garden. Q: HOW IS A POLLINATOR GARDEN CREATED? A: A pollinator garden is created by arranging the same variety of plants in groups of 3 to 5 in a minimum space of at least 25 square feet. Plants are then selected based upon the environment of sun or shade, planted, and mulched to keep them moist. The plants are then kept healthy by deadheading old flowers and watering liberally. Pesticides should never be used in a pollinator garden.

POLLINATOR FUN FACTS: Top Five Pollinating Insects: • Wild honeybees • Managed honeybee • Bumble Bee • Butterfly • Moth A bee colony will pollinate 3 million flowers a day. For advice or help creating your garden contact Bill Slevin

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SOMA DREAM TEAM MAKEOVER

This month’s Dream Team feature is Deborah Engel This month’s feature is Deborah Engel, Deputy Mayor of Maplewood and Associate Director of the Jewish

from winter weather. To treat any aches in hips caused by sitting too long while doing work or managing family activities, Astraea&co’s Warming & Cooling salve was suggested - providing maximum relaxation benefits!

Kerry Codero, Inspire Style - Deb’s Style Card Reading revealed her radiant and soft self. She pulled the Fire Card, representing her talent for connecting people, while the Water Card showed her desire for inward and creative time. Trying on outfits that expressed her Style Cards, Deb was

Community Relations Council at Jewish Federation of Greater MetroWest. Deb moved to Maplewood in 2009 and has three daughters, ages 12, 11 and 9. She founded Work and Play, the South Orange coworking space with childcare that closed during the pandemic and co founded General Store Cooperative in Maplewood. Deb loves building community and advocating for the values and causes she believes in.

illuminated from within. Spring and new beginnings were captured perfectly in the elegant lace dress and white crochet. The olive jumpsuit showcased her innate beauty in a soft yet sexy manner. Julie Perlow-Greene- Retail Therapy - Deb is an inspiring woman on a number of fronts and we wanted her clothes to allow her to shine. She also has recently gone through career and personal transitions; so the goal in her styling was definitely to bring freshness to her wardrobe. She was open to stepping out of her comfort zone and looked playful yet elegant in the photo shoot outfits.

Jill Cohen, TheCannaBossLady - Deb Engel is a true inspiration when it comes to her commitment to self-care and well-being. During our CBD consultation, we decided upon some products that would bring relief with all of the duties she has as Deputy Mayor of Maplewood, working full time at Jewish Federation and raising three

children! I recommended Tribetokes Vitamin C & Ferulic Acid Serum for spot treating acne issues on top of Potency no 710 Higher Good cream designed specifically for hydrating those extremely dry areas like cracked hands

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Lyn Your Face, Makeup artist - Deb and I chose natural false lashes and neutral shadows to make her eyes look wider and brighter, and bronzer to warm up her skin without competing with the key to this look: that red lip. I chose Nars Velvet Matte Lip

smile as the focal point around which to frame her face, I trimmed her hair to double her face’s length. Newly created layers help add volume as well as reinforce her face frame. The resulting look is easy yet fresh, modern but classic, a perfect style for a busy professional mom.

Lee Seidenberg Photography - I’ve been lucky enough to know Deb for quite some time. I was member #7 when Deb opened Work N’ Play. Since, I opened two studios in Orange and things have come full circle as my studio is now the bottom floor of the old Work N’ Play space. Deb has such an amazing smile and energy and wanted to

Pencil in Cruella, a classic true red that I knew would last all through the shoot and beyond (and blended beautifully with the colors in her outfits!) The best part is that it truly highlights her infectious smile.

Yoni Kreger, YK Salon - With so much going on in her life, having her hair cut and styled hadn’t been a priority for Deborah. I knew she needed a look that was easy to manage without sacrificing sophistication. Using her dazzling bright

capture off of that with the awesome wardrobe, hair and styling. We had fun on our fake ivory wall and giving her hair some movement with a fan.

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DRINK OF THE MONTH

SmasHit

This song…ummm, we mean Cocktail is guaranteed to be a SMASH HIT! Fresh fruits & herbs balance out a dose of good ‘ol fashion White Lightening to create a summer sipper that’ll really get you groovin’. It’s pure Rock & Roll baby!

Ingredients

• 2-ounce Midnight Moon Raspberry Moonshine

4. Shake vigorously 5. Double strain in a rocks glass over fresh crushed ice 6. Garnish with a fresh tarragon sprig & raspberry stick •.5-ounce fresh raspberry puree •.5-ounce fresh squeezed lime •3 dashes cherry bark vanilla bitters

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•4 fresh Raspberries •2 Tarragon Sprigs

Steps

1. Gather the ingredients 2. Muddle raspberries, tarragon sprig & bitters in Boston shaker 3. Pour in Moonshine, Raspberry Puree, & lime juice in Boston shaker filled with ice

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RECIPE OF THE MONTH

BLUEBERRY COBBLER Prep time: 15 mins • Cook time: 40 mins Servings: 6

INSTRUCTIONS

1. Preheat the oven to 400 degrees and lightly spray a 1½ qt baking dish with non-stick baking spray. 2. Blueberry Filling 3. Toss the blueberries with the remaining ingredients. Stir evenly to coat and pour into the prepared pan. 4. Cobbler Topping 5. Whisk together the flour, baking powder, sugar, and salt. Add the butter and mix with your fingers until you have coarse meal. 6. Stir in the cream until just combined. 7. Drop six even scoops on top of the blueberry mixture (They’ll be just touching.) Brush the tops with the melted butter and sprinkle with sugar. 8. Place the baking dish on a lined baking sheet to catch any drips while it bakes. 9. Bake until the cobbler is risen, golden brown, and the blueberries are bubbling about 35-40 mins. Cover the top lightly with foil if it begins too brown to deeply.

This is the BEST EVER blueberry cobbler. Juicy blueberries in a gloriously glossy sauce topped with tender biscuits with a buttery, sugary crust. Blueberries at their peak are sweet and flavorful.

10.Cool on a wire rack until still warm but cool enough to eat, about 10 mins. 11.Serve warm or at room temperature, topped with vanilla ice cream if desired. Loosely cover the cobbler with aluminum foil and store at room temp for up to two days. RECIPE NOTES • Don’t over-mix the biscuit topping. Over-handling can make it chewy and more dense instead of light and crumbly. • You can substitute flour for cornstarch, but cornstarch definitely produces a silkier sauce. • Don’t skip brushing the biscuit topping with butter and sugar! It gives it a sweet, crunchy, golden crust.

INGREDIENTS

BLUEBERRY FILLING 2 pints blueberries (about 4 cups) 1/4 cup sugar (1/3 cup if your blueberries aren’t as naturally sweet) 1 Tbsp lemon juice 1 tsp vanilla 1/4 cup corn starch 1/4 tsp kosher salt pinch of nutmeg

COBBLER TOPPING 1 ½ cups all-purpose flour 2 tsp baking powder 1/4 cup sugar ½ tsp kosher salt 2 oz unsalted butter (½ stick) 3/4 cup heavy cream 1 Tbsp unsalted butter, melted 1 Tbsp turbinado or granulated sugar *vanilla ice cream for serving

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Cathy Roma’s food philosophy is simple: everything in moderation. She’s worked in restaurants, owned an online bakery, has a bordering-on-problematic cookbook obsession and is the writer, photographer and recipe developer for the blog whatshouldimakefor.com. She lives in South Orange with her well-fed family, overstocked pantry, and mildly excessive collection of cookie cutters.

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ATHLETE OF THE MONTH SPONSORED BY BASS FAMILY CHIROPRACTIC

DANIEL BUTKUS

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Daniel Butkus, is a 12th grader at Columbia High School. His friends call him Dan, and he is an ac complished athlete with a passion for running. Daniel has participated in track and field events throughout his high school career, including winter track, spring track, and cross country. As an athlete, he has been the captain of his cross country, spring track, and win ter track teams for the CHS Cougars.

As a Junior, Dan took third place in both the 1,600-meter run in 4:35.53 and the 3,200-meter run in 10:21.74 at the Super Essex Conference–American Division championships. He credits his coach, Taylor Iraggi, with inspiring him and providing him with the necessary guidance to achieve his athletic goals. Outside of athletics, Daniel enjoys reading books and spending time with his friends. His favorite school subjects are math and chemistry, and he hopes to become an engineer when he grows up. Daniel is a fan of Bruce Springsteen and enjoys eating Indian food at his favorite restaurant, Tandoori Chef. Daniel’s tips for success as a student athlete are to manage time wisely, put “student” before “athlete,” and be dedicated to your sport. He believes in taking his athletic pursuits seriously and encourages others to do the same. With his passion for running and his dedication to success, Daniel is sure to achieve great things in his future.

ABOUT DR. BASS If one word were used to describe Dr. Wayne J. Bass, it would be “community.” As one who has served on the Maplewood Chamber of Commerce for a number of years, Dr. Bass understands the needs of the community and strives to achieve excellence with every appointment. In fact, his business was founded on the principle of excellence in the community in 2006. While there are many chiropractors out there, Dr. Bass is one who truly cares about the well-being of his patients. (973) 378-2277 BASSFAMILYCHIRO.COM 491B VALLEY ST, MAPLEWOOD, NJ 07040

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FROM THE DOCTOR Research reveals that these easily obtained herbs can give you an edge on the flu and the common cold: 1. Ashwagandha- Small woody plant native to India and North Africa used in Ayurvedic medicine. A clinical trial showed that five participants who took six milliliters of ashwagandha root extract, twice daily, for four days, had increases in immune cell activity. 2. Holy Basil- Native to India and is a component of Ayurvedic medicine. A randomized controlled trial confirmed that holy basil boosts crucial immune factors in participants’ blood. 3. Black Pepper- A study asserts that black pepper extract enhances the cytotoxic activity of natural killer cells. The study also suggests that black pepper extract may exert anti-tumor action and promote a healthy immune system. 4. Cinnamon- A powerful antibacterial and antifungal spice may help the immune system fight off infection and relieve symptoms of autoimmune disorders. 5. Rosemary- Containing rosmarinic acid, which may modulate the immune response, has anti-allergy and decongestant properties. In a study with twenty-nine participants, those given rosmarinic acid had decreased amounts of immune cells in nasal mucus and reduced nasal congestion. 6. Echinacea- Refers to a group of flowering plants belonging to the daisy family. A review of sixteen studies found that echinacea is effective in preventing and treating upper respiratory infections. Call us to learn more about herbal remedies and whether one or more of these alternative treatments fits into your wellness program. 6 HERBS THAT HELP BOOST IMMUNITY

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FROM THE DOCTOR

SPINAL DECOMPRESSION

Your spine is an intricate and complicated piece of the body. When injuries happen, it can greatly affect ones lift and activity level. There are multiple treatment options for spinal injury. These include surgery, injections, braces, physical therapy, and spinal decompression. We will focus on spinal decompression which is offered at certain PT or chiropractic centers. It is a way to non-invasively treat cervical and lumbar stenosis as well as disc bulges. Spinal decompression can treat both cervical and lumbar injuries and, again, is noninvasive. The therapy works to stretch the spine, using a spinal decompression table or other device, to create negative pressure and space within the disc to allow disc fluid to move back into place. This creates an environment in which the disc can receive more nutrients and therefore heal itself more quickly and effectively. Generally, decompression treatments last 20 minutes from start to finish. Tension from the device is weight based and patient specific. In most cases, it takes about 20-28 sessions over a 5-7 week period for maximum results. For most spinal injuries, a personalized combination of exercises, physical therapy modalities, and the spinal decompression will create the best results in the shortest amount of time. Set up a one-on-one consultation with one of our doctors to determine if you are a candidate for decompression.

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FRANK McGEHEE Former Maplewood Mayor and Democratic leader Frank McGehee announced his run for Assembly in New Jersey’s new 28th Legislative District (now representing South Orange, Maplewood, the South and West Wards of Newark, Irvington and Hillside). SOMA was redistricted from the 27th to the 28th Legislative District. Assembly person Mila Jasey announced she will not seek re-election. There are three Democratic candidates running for two seats. “This election is a new opportunity for residents to think critically about who will best represent them in Trenton. I’m running because voters need change and experienced leadership,” said McGehee. He added, “The Covid pandemic changed everything about how we live, learn, work and play. Let’s accelerate change so our municipalities can thrive - not stick with politics as usual.” New Jersey is the only state in the United States where candidates running for state office are endorsed by the county. Candidates backed by the county generate higher funding and usually win their elections because voters don’t take the time to get to know their candidates. Instead, voters simply “vote the county line.” The county is banking on this so that their candidates feel obligated to put the county’s interests first. McGehee explained, “Our residents deserve forward thinking leaders who are about the people first, not political machines at the county or municipal level,” He concluded, “Vote Line B for Frank McGehee for Assembly on Tuesday, June 6.”

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DEMOCRATS, CHANGE….It’s Up To Us!

“I’m running because the voters in Essex and Union Counties want and need change. The Covid pandemic changed everything about how we live, learn, work and play so I see this election as an opportunity to accelerate change so that our municipalities can thrive .”

_Frank McGehee

Issues I’m Passionate About

Affordability / Closing the Wealth Gap

Education

Public Safety / Stopping Gun Violence

Responsible Development

Accessible Healthcare / Mental Health

Transportation and Infrastructure

Environmental Sustainability

Racial/Gender LGBTQIA Equality

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REAL ESTATE SOUTH ORANGE GASLIGHTS

South Orange’s gaslights may be the most enduring hallmark of our community. South Orange has over 1,400 gas lamps, more than any other township in the United States. Ray Kienzle has maintained South Orange’s gas lights for the past 35 years. Ray, who is now semi-retired from PSEG, talks about what it’s like to be a lamp lighter and the long-time friends he made working here. “There was a lady on Hillside that used to make me apple pies,” Ray

laughed. “I once swapped the clear, plexiglass globe of a gaslight with a frosted one to celebrate a couple’s 50th wedding Anniversary. The milk glass made it more romantic, they liked that.” Another time, Ray used the figurine of a baseball batter, taken from a baseball trophy and mounted it on top of a gaslight for a young little leaguer. Ray explained, “I told him, ‘that’s your lamp’. The kid must be thirty now but I think he must remember that.” It’s ironic that Edison invented the light bulb in nearby Menlo Park but South Orange decided to keep its old style gas lamps. Thanks to Ray, our historic gaslights continue to add charm and warmth to our South Orange neighborhood.

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HOME DESIGN “There are a lot of cool chairs in this house,” exclaimed my real estate partner Kim Kelly, as we wandered through a home during a broker open house. “There certainly is. That one’s an Eames Lounge chair and it looks fabulous in purple velvet! So classic mid-century. This is a well-curated house.”

“They did a great job putting it all together,” Kim complimented. “They certainly did. I’m sure it took a long time to find all these pieces. But that’s the beauty of it. I’m sure if you asked the homeowner about any one of these furnishings, they could tell you the story about where they found it or how they came to get it.” “You don’t get that buying everything out of a big box store,” Kim added. “Right!” I responded, “There’s a number of great shops around us to buy stuff that you’ll fall in love with.”

“What do you mean curated?” Kim asked.

“Well, it’s when you take your time and carefully hand pick each piece. Remember how I said not to forget art in a home?”

“Yes,” replied Kim, rolling her eyes.

“A well-curated home goes beyond just the art. It’s furniture and accessories too. Your couch, rugs, vases, tables, and chairs,” I said, pointing to all the beautiful furnishings that surrounded us.

“Like the Maplewood Mercantile,” said Kim.

“Exactly. They have amazing stuff there,” I added.

“And a curated home will help you fall in love with your space,” Kim said brightly. I could only smile... “

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FINANCIAL FOCUS NEW LAW MAY OFFER FINANCIAL OPPORTUNITIES The SECURE 2.0 Act, which recently passed, covers many areas that may affect your financial decisions. Here are some changes that may interest you, depending on your circumstances: If you’re a retiree, the age for required minimum distributions (RMDs) from your traditional IRA and 401(k) has increased from 72 to 73, effective this year. Additionally, the penalty for missed RMDs has been reduced from 50% to 25%. You now have new options for qualified charitable distributions and can make a one time qualified charitable distribution of up to $50,000 to entities that previously couldn’t receive them. If you’re still working, you can now take your employer’s matching and other contributions on a Roth basis if you participate in a 401(k) or similar plan. If you’re a business owner, you may now claim a startup credit covering 100% of the administrative costs of opening a 401(k) plan, up to $5,000 for each of the first three years of the plan. You may also be eligible for a tax credit based on employee matching or profit-sharing contributions. Additionally, you can earn a tax credit of up to $500 for three years if you make military spouses eligible for a retirement plan. These are just some of the provisions in the SECURE 2.0 Act that may be relevant to your situation. You should contact your financial and tax advisors to determine how you may be affected by this legislation and how you could take advantage of it. Edward Jones, its employees and financial advisors cannot provide tax or legal advice. You should consult your attorney or qualified tax advisor regarding your situation.

Gary T. Jones 973.821.4900 • g.jones@EdwardJones.com

With over 25 years of experience, I work with individuals and businesses to help you achieve your financial goals. As a longtime resident of SOMA, I am proud to serve the local community. To learn more about the content of this article or schedule an appointment to talk about your goals, please contact me in my Maplewood office.

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LA BELLE ET LA BETE The Maplewood Strollers, the resident theater company of The Burgdorff Center for the Performing Arts in Maplewood, is thrilled to present an original world-premiere musical, ‘La Belle et la Bete.’ Based on the original French fable of ‘Beauty and the Beast,’ come and be transported to a magical and gripping realm of love and song! Showtimes are Friday, Saturday and Sunday May 11 -13 and May 18- 20 at 8 pm. There are matinee performances Sunday, May 14th and 21st at 3 pm. All shows take place at the Burgdorff Center for the Performing Arts, 10 Durand Road in Maplewood. The May 18 performance will have ALS interpreters, and the May 14th Mother’s Day showing offers a preshow tea with entertainment and delicious nibbles.

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CANNABOSS LADY MAPLEWOOD’S FIRST WOMAN OWNED DISPENSARY

Maplewood Township is set to welcome its first solely woman-owned cannabis business later this year. “Elevated” by The Cannaboss Dispensary will offer consumers a luxury dispensary

experience and will be located adjacent to the current CBD shop on 9 Highland Place in downtown Maplewood. The product selection includes craft cannabis from local cultivators like the brand Miss Grass, luxury products from My Bud Vase, Puffco, and Her Highness NYC. It will also include small batch, third-party tested, non-GMO, full spectrum CBD made by Boss Ladies. Founder and owner Jill Cohen is a cannabis pioneer who has been researching the medicinal power of the hemp plant for decades. On a personal level, it helped her heal from an abusive childhood. In addition, Cohen spent two years as the Managing Director of The Emerald Magazine and made it her personal mission to advocate for cannabis legalization. “I am thrilled to be expanding my business and offering a new destination for New Jersey residents to discover the best craft cannabis that New Jersey has to offer. Elevated is going to be a plush, welcoming environment that offers a higher level of wellness,” shared Jill Cohen. TheCannaBossLady was founded in 2021 as a women owned CBD shop in the tri-state area. It offers a highly curated marketplace for online or in-person shoppers. TheCannaBossLady educates and empowers women to make knowledgeable choices when selecting cannabinoid products. Every purchase donates to a BIPOC non-profit. Learn more at TheCannaBossLady.com and follow on Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest, and YouTube.

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HOMEBUYER INITIATIVE

BLACK AND NON-WHITE HISPANIC WGEL

The historical racial inequities in homeownership that are still present in Essex County today threaten to constrain the racial diversity of South Orange and Maplewood. In fact, non-Hispanic, white households in Essex County New Jersey are 41% more likely to own a home than their Black and non-white Hispanic counterparts. This gap is greater today than it was fifty years ago, prior to the passage of the Fair Housing Act. In an effort to close this gap, the South Orange-Maplewood Community Coalition on Race recently launched a new program: the Wealth Gap Equalizer Loan (WGEL). With the goal of supporting a new generation of Black and non-white Hispanic homebuyers in SOMA, WGEL is a “Special Purpose Credit Program” that offers qualifying first-time home-buyers loans up to $7,500. These interest free, unsecured loans enable historically disadvantaged families to successfully compete in the home buying process by providing supplemental cash for purchase offers, down payments, closing costs, legal fees and other related transactions. In collaboration with HUD-approved counseling agencies, mortgage lenders, and real estate professionals serving SOMA, the Community Coalition on Race all WGEL loan applicants receive counseling, referrals, and reliable support throughout the application and home buying process. These loans feature a five-year repayment plan (with no early penalties) and are designed to provide homebuyers with their funds as quickly as possible, if approved. To learn more and to apply for the Wealth Gap Equalizer Loan, go to https://choosesoma.com/move/WGEL.

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REAL ESTATE FOR YOUR BUSINESS

Thinking of starting your own business in a retail store, office or warehouse? Moving to a new location or extending the lease in your current space? Here are three of the most important terms to address during your commercial lease negotiations: 1. Term: Lease terms vary in length, depending on the type of business, location, use and market conditions. Confirm that you’re comfortable with the number of years of your lease and plan for contingencies in case your business changes. For example, would you like the right to expand into the neighboring space if that tenant moves out? Can you assign the lease or sublet the space if your needs change? It’s important to think about the possible scenarios when making your offer to a potential landlord. 2.Rent and Additional Rent: To properly budget your expenses, confirm your fixed rent amount and note what it includes. Are utilities included or billed? Landlords often charge “additional rent,” which may include tenant’s share of common area expenses (in retail leases), or portions of the landlord’s annual real estate tax payments (in office leases). 3. Personal Guaranty: Most landlords want a business owner to personally guaranty all of the tenant’s obligations (monetary and otherwise) under the lease for the entire term of the lease. Instead of giving a full guaranty, try to provide a “Good Guy Guaranty.” It’s still a personal guaranty, but it caps your personal liability to the rent owed on the date your business surrenders the space and gives the keys back to the landlord. In most cases, landlords ask for 3-6 months written notice. When hiring an attorney to review and negotiate your lease, make sure the attorney is well-versed in the subtleties of commercial leasing. Leases last many years and have language that could create long term consequences for your business. You want to make sure that you are protected for the life of the lease.

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BOOK RELEASE SOMA AUTHOR’S DEBUT NOVEL DRAWS ACCLAIM

Patience is a Subtle Thief is a suspenseful novel evoking the subtleties of Nigerian life in a fresh and unexpected way. This heart-wrenching story illustrates a young woman’s precarious journey to adulthood, and the risks and sacrifices it takes to follow her heart. The acclaimed debut by Emmy Award Winning journalist, Abi Ishola-Ayodeji follows Patience, a young woman growing up in Nigeria who embarks on a desperate journey to reunite with her estranged mother in America. Along the way, she enters a life of fraud to gather the money she needs to get to her mom. Set against the backdrop of Nigeria’s historic 1993 election, Patience faces the realities of her most dangerous job as Nigerians endure the strain of instability after years of military dictatorship, the dashed hope for democracy, and bloody protests. Patience is a Subtle Thief earned a coveted Kirkus starred review and acclaim from Essence, Teen Vogue, TheSkimm, Library Journal, and several other publications. It’s the novel BuzzFeed calls one of the best books of May 2022. Abi Ishola-Ayodeji is an Emmy award winning journalist who has written for several publications including ELLE.com, Essence, The Huffington Post, and Ebony. In 2017 she was named among Essence Magazine’s Woke 100 Women for launching Beyond Classically Beautiful. During her career, she’s covered extraordinary people, communities, and events in New York City, DC, London, Paris, Nigeria, and Ghana. As a first generation Nigerian American, Ishola-Ayodeji grew up in Miami, but now resides in the SOMA area.

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MAPLEWOOD GARDEN CLUB

ANNUAL PLANT SALE

This Spring the Maplewood Garden Club (MGC) host its 86th Annual Plant Sale at the Maplewood Community Pool on May 11, 12, and 13. Known around the state as the best plant sale of the year, the MGC has been bringing great plants to the people of NJ since FDR was in the White House. The annual plant sale is the only fundraiser held by MGC each year. It offers exceptional plant material, often unusual or rare, below market prices to the public. The club has long term relationships with some of the best growers in the country. Under the guidance of expert and master gardeners, dedicated volunteers begin potting-up bare root perennials mid-winter to grow them on for the sale. They nurture them in the MGC nursery garden cold frames and municipal greenhouses. Vegetables, herbs, annuals and hanging baskets are purchased from local growers and delivered directly to the sale site. This ensures the highest quality plant material. Specialty annuals and tender perennials are propagated by Club members adding hard to find varieties. Friendly and knowledgeable Club members are on hand to give help and advice. The funds raised enable MGC to support ongoing projects and activities including: Scholarships to Columbia High School Seniors and Rutgers University Students, the Dickens Village Conservatory, the Durand-Hedden herb garden, the Hilton Rain Garden, Maplewood Library book donations, Maplewood Township greenhouses, the Memorial Garden behind Town Hall, holiday decorations at the railroad station, and numerous gardens around town. Check out our website for further information: https://maplewoodgardenclub.org/plant-sale/ Where: Maplewood Community Pool, 187 Boyden Ave When: Th. May 11& Fri. May 12, 8a-9p Sat. May 13, 8am – 4pm

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LYNN V. PROFETA FIELD On Saturday, April 22 The Lynn V. Profeta Field, at the Underhill Sports Complex in Maplewood, reopened with a SOMA community-wide celebration. The event was a fantastic collaboration between CHS Cougar Boosters, Alumni, and CHS Activities & Athletics Dept. Students from the acapella group, marching band, as well as student athlete captains participated in the dedication. Local leaders such as Maplewood Mayor Dean Dafis and South Orange Village President Sheena Collum were present, along with Board of Education members. The field was dedicated with remarks from former Maplewood Mayor and benefactor Fred Profeta, CHS Principal Frank Sanchez, and CHS Director of Activities and Athletics Rich Porfido. Jamie Fardin, who received the CHS award for the National Women in Sports Day for her varsity lacrosse and volleyball accomplishments, performed the ceremonial ribbon cutting. To top it all off, the Columbia High School Boys Varsity Lacrosse team claimed victory in their home game on the new field.

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ANDRES TRUJILLO Village Pickup Truck Rentals is a locally owned and operated pickup truck rental business that serves the SOMA and Millburn neighborhoods. The company was founded in 2023 by a local resident, Andy Trujillo, who noticed a problem in the community. He explained, “Many families in the area don’t have access to a pickup truck, and renting one can be a hassle. Village Pickup Truck Rentals was created to solve these problems.” MEET THE MERCHANT

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