SOMA Living July 2022

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FACES IN THE CROWD

North Jersey Pride Festival celebrated in Maplewood’s Memorial Park on June 12. Live music, dancing, and booths for food and retail were just some of the highlights of this annual celebration.

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Editor: Karen L. Driggs

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INTRODUCING THE PEACOCK FAMILY

Photography by Jamie Meier

The story of the Peacock family begins in Florida. Robin explained, “Dan was working at Nickelodeon Studios and I was finishing up college – and we met in a bar.” After college, Robin moved north where she attended Villanova Law School, and Dan moved to New York City to continue his career in sports and entertainment finance. While they focused on school and work during the week, they often spent time together, exploring New York by venturing to the most recommended pizza spots in five boroughs. They eventually married, and, after living in the city, the Peacock family came to Maplewood via Queens. Robin shared, “I was working at the IRS at the time when two co-workers (who still live here) said, ‘you must check out this town!’ As soon as we stepped into Maplewood Village, we fell in love.” They moved here in November 2004. With the move to Maplewood, the family flourished. They added a third son and took advantage of all the town has to offer. Avid lovers of the outdoors, they spent a lot of time in Maplecrest and Memorial parks when the boys where younger – sidelines and on bleachers throughout the area as all three playing a variety of town, school, and club sports over the years. Ben (20) is now a rising Junior at Ohio State (which is also Dan’s alma mater). Robin and Dan enjoy having him home and watching him reconnect with local friends. “They are all young adults now, and it’s been so fun to watch them grow together - and to see what’s next for each of them,” said Robin. Henry is a rising Senior at Pingry who plays soccer and lacrosse. He recently spent a semester abroad living in Jordan. He and his younger brother Teddy (13) – along with Dan - are certified SCUBA divers. Teddy attends Maplewood Midde School and plays lacrosse throughout the year. He also occasionally “chicken-sits” for their neighbors. As their sons grow older, Dan and Robin are pursuing new career paths. Dan recently began a new role as CFO for Emursive Productions, and Robin transitioned from law to the nonprofit sector. These days, Robin can often be found at The Breadstand or Village Coffee – her preferred spots for local work meetings as the Executive Director of MEND.

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MEND stands for “Meeting Essential Needs with Dignity,” and is an interfaith network of over twenty member food pantries and community partners located throughout Essex County (mendnj.org). Robin noted, “Part of my job is help transform hunger relief. Boxed and canned goods can help in an emergency, but they aren’t the answer for improving the overall health of a community longer term.” The NJ Economic Development Authority recently designated several towns within Essex County as ‘food deserts,’ highlighting a lack of consistent access to affordable and nutritious food as a key local issue. Robin explained, “MEND works within local communities to listen to their needs, and to work with community leaders and organizations to design specific, responsive programming to meet those needs.” She continued, “Based on community feedback over the last several years, MEND provides access to high quality, culturally relevant, fresh, and healthy food.” In January of 2020, IMPACT 100 Essex awarded MEND a $120,000 grant to create a “Fresh Food Hub” in Orange, NJ. The hub team coordinates fresh food sourcing logistics for their partners. They used the funding to build the initial infrastructure needed – including two walk-in refrigerators and a van - and are now looking to grow and sustain this work as they add partners and expand programming, and as the need remains high. Robin elaborated, “We are eager for more people to know who we are and what we do – and to help support this important work as they are able.” When asked about free time, Robin admitted, “Working and being a mom takes up 99% of my time, but I’m trying to findmore time for myself. I’ve dusted off my running shoes and joined the SOMA Fox Running Club (that selected MEND as a charity partner. I’m running in the Fifth Annual “10Days of 10Ks” organized by local runner, Jessica Lituchy, to support MEND. Anyone can participate as awalker or runner for as fewor as many events from July 8-July 17. www.mendnj.org/10-days-of-10Ks As a family, the Peacocks also enjoy traveling together and spending time outdoors. So far, they traveled to Ireland, Iceland, Greece, Africa, Jordan, Panama, and Mexico. For now, they are content to simply enjoy hiking locally, gardening in their yard, and walking their two rescue dogs (Archer and Prince) around town. And because old habits die hard, they also frequent local pizza spots: including, Arturo’s, Village Trattoria, Roman Gourmet, and Sabbatino’s.

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Jocelyn is a very spiritual person who practices yoga, chakra balancing, and meditation. With this in mind, I suggested she drink High Tea Healing Heaven Green Tea before attending her next yoga class. This product

will relax her mind for meditation while also giving her some energy to brave through any flow she takes on her mat. I also gave her a sample of Red Belly Honey, to elevate her tea-drinking experience, and Potency no. 710 Gold Face Serum, to reinforce her glowing skin. - Jill Cohen, TheCannaBossLady.

Kerry and Jocelyn had an extraordinary Style Card Reading. Jocelyn intuitively understood the styling advice and that its connection to nature showed ways of using her clothes to support her intention of creating a new movement. Her excellent sense of style is unique and expresses her commitment to community, dialogue, and

Here are some images from last month’s issue featuring Autumn Jones. You can see more images at somadreamteam.com This month, we’re featuring Jocelyn R. Taylor, the founder of JRT Multimedia, a full-service Management Consulting Service and media agency, and the founder of LayerUp!; a collaborative Global narrative media platform, multi-tiered educational resource, and social media hub called with the goal of elevating the awareness and accountability of all Global Citizens of Consciousness/Change/Color. You can learn more about her and her initiatives at jrtmultimedia.com. I had the pleasure of meeting with Jocelyn Taylor. We discussed CBD therapy and how it could enhance her well-being. After listening to her story, it became clear that she has all of her healthcare under control (and looks fabulous!). She is still always looking for new ways to improve her self-care.

higher purpose. Adding the polished white ensemble to her look at the photoshoot showed her off as a leader. Thanks to Jocelyn for an incredibly rewarding session that was fed by an energetic dialogue. - Kerry Cordero, Dress your Dream I had a delightful time getting to know this insightful and warmhearted “citizen of consciousness.” Creating for Jocelyn a hairstyle that reflects not just the undertones of her skin but her vivacious personality and energetic spirit. She sought an overall blonde look, devoid of reddish tones, with some dimension to accentuate her short hair. To create the color Jocelyn desired, I first lightened her hair before applying toner

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them together in a unique fabulous way. Check out my Instagram page, @retailtherapy_south orange, to see a sneak peek of some of her looks. - Julie Perlow, Retail Therapy

gloss to cancel any reddish tones from emerging. After applying a few highlights, I then texturized the cut, sharpening lines around her face to accentuate the fittingly bold look for this powerful, affable woman. - Yoni Kreger, YK Salon

Jocelyn, who has been a long-time customer and consignor at my store, was ready for a change. We found 3 outfits that took her seasoned professional persona and infused it with playfulness and boldness. Jocelyn’s style choices in the photo shoot unapologetically express her authentic self. First, a denim body-con

Jocelyn came into the studio like a firecracker, ready to go sporting blue lipstick and red, white, and purple striped boots. A lot of what I do is respond to the energy of my clients. She had a confident and powerful presence. For the most part, I let her take the lead on the posing. I would direct her only when I felt I wanted a specific posture or expression or to prompt her into doing something expressive. For lighting, I wanted to sculpt her body, shape, and wardrobe. There were so many great shots of her, that it was hard to choose just a few for this article. You can see more images at somadreamteam.com. - Lee Seidenberg Photography We’re looking for interesting people for upcoming issues. If you’d like to work with our Dream Team and like to be featured, please visit somadreamteam.com.

dress with vintage Pucci boots, as Jocelyn loves mixing vintage looks with current polished styles. She is all about the unexpected accents in her accessory choices which you see in her gold hanging earrings paired with Norma Kamali vintage inspired gray pantsuit. Working with Jocelyn is both a thrill and a lesson in humility, as she is her own best stylist. She easily found eclectic pieces from my collection and put

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DRINK OF THE MONTH

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How beautiful she is indeed! She’s exotic & as strong as she is sweet. Everything you’ve dreamed of in a…. Summer Cocktail! This tropical libation will surely bring you back to palm trees and summer fun! Ingredients: .5 fresh Strawberry .25 fresh Lime 1.5-ounce Hennessy Cognac

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RECIPE OF THE MONTH

INSTRUCTIONS

ITALIANGRAZING BOARDWITH ROASTED TOMATOES Prep Time: 20 min • Cook Time: 30 min • Yields: 8 servings Now about this board...less is definitely not more here. Think lots of flavors, colors, and textures. I go crazy in this grazing board with hard and soft cheeses, marinated olives, artichokes, beans and peppers, prosciutto, salami, and ALL the carby breads and crackers and crisps. Mangia!

1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees F and line a sheet tray with parchment or nonstick foil.

2. Place the tomatoes on the sheet tray, cut side up and top with chopped garlic, being sure that each tomatoe halve is topped with some garlic. 3.Scatter the thyme sprigs over the tomatoes, drizzle with olive oil and vinegar, and sprinkle with sugar, salt and pepper. 4.Roast at 400 for 25-30 mins until softened and lightly caramelized. Serve warm or at room Arrange all the ingredients on a large board or platter, being sure to mix up colors and flavors. Use small bowls, parchment paper, mini spoons and knives as needed. RECIPE NOTES • Roasted tomatoes will keep in the refrigerator for up to one week. • A large, rustic wood cutting board is another way to present your menu items. temperature with the tomato oil. MAKE THE GRAZING BOARD

INGREDIENTS

• The ingredients for this grazing board are simply suggestions. Make it your own by adding your favorite items. • This platter is made to be served casual family style and can be left at room temperature for an hour or two (if it lasts that long!). GRAZING BOARD STYLING TIPS • Start with your stars (roasted tomatoes) and bigger items and build around them. • Use different shapes and sizes. Cut up some cheeses while leaving some in whole rounds or wedges. Fold or roll meats, slice up veggies, and serve little tomatoes right on the vine. • Use little bowls or pieces of parchment for wet or greasy items.

Italian Grazing Board 2 cups mozzarella or bocconcini 1 cup parmesan chunks 1 cup marinated artichokes 1 cup mixed, marinated olives 1 cup marinated beans (white or fava) 2 cups hot or cherry peppers Roasted Tomatoes 1 lb cherry tomatoes, halved 6 cloves garlic, peeled and chopped 10 sprigs fresh thyme

1 cup pepperoncini 1/4 lb prosciutto 1/2 lb salami

1 cup parmesan crisps 1/2 loaf rustic Italian bread, fresh or toasted 2 cups taralli or crackers 1 bunch fresh basil 1/2 cup fig jam roasted tomatoes (recipe follows) 3 Tbsp extra virgin olive oil 2 Tbsp balsamic vinegar 1/2 tsp sugar 1 tsp kosher salt 1/2 tsp ground black pepper

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Congratulations to Sparkle In Motion, the Columbia girls Ultimate Frisbee New Jersey State Champions! The team defeated West Windsor—Plainsboro Regional 11-9. Senior captain Sydney Mannion is NJ State Player of the Year. First team all-state players are Vivian Welch and Irene Chen. Second team all-state memebers include Abby Sullivan, Sandy Yang, Simone Heinze and Sabrina Manion. Way to go girls! ATHLETES OF THE MONTH SPONSORED BY BASS FAMILY CHIROPRACTIC COLUMBIA GIRLS ULTIMATE FRISBEE TEAM

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THE GALLERY Paper Mill Playhouse, (Mark S. Hoebee-Producing Artistic Director, Michael Stotts Managing Director)is proud to announce the upcoming season of The Gallery at Paper Mill in the Renee Foosaner Art Gallery. The four exhibitions are designed to thematically compliment the theater’s mainstage productions, with a separate open call for each show.

Paper Mill’s mainstage productions proudly amplify the stories of BIPOC artists and participate in global heritage celebrations. JPMorgan Chase & Co. is the Major Sponsor of the Gallery at Paper Mill.

Dates for the 2022-2023 Gallery at Paper Mill Season:

MOVEMENT • September 22–November 4 Concurrently with On Your Feet (The Story of Gloria Estefan) during Hispanic/Latinx Heritage Month Open Call for Artists June 16–July 31

LIGHT • November 17–January 13 Concurrently with The Sound of Music and the Holiday Season Open Call for Artists August 15–October 2

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STREET • April 6–June 30 Concurrently with Murder on the Orient Express and Rent , as well as Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage and Pride Months Open call for Artists January 9–June 30 The Gallery at Paper Mill is located on the mezzanine level and can be enjoyed by patrons attending a performance or visited daily from 12:00PM–6:00PM (no ticket required). For more information, visit Papermill.org/plan-your-visit/the-gallery. For questions and comments regarding The Gallery at Paper Mill, please email gallery@papermill.org.

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SOPAC The INSPIRED MINDS: Young Artist Exhibition is a visual arts program designed to nurture and enrich the next generation by celebrating young artists in the region. This annual program provides a comprehensive, professional gallery experience to art students from submission, selection, exhibition, and possible sale. This year, INSPIRED MINDS returns live to The Herb + Milly Iris Gallery at SOPAC. The 2022 show,now through August 14, includes more than 70 pieces created by 60 students from 14 Essex County high schools. “To see the reaction of the art students when they see their work hung in a professional gallery is priceless,” says Jeremy Moss, curator for The Herb + Milly Iris Gallery. “This year’s exhibition is the largest ever installed in the gallery and, in my humble opinion, the highest quality work we ever. Bravo to all of the students and their teachers!” View all the works from this exhibition in our Flickr Gallery. To purchase, contact Linda Beard at (973) 382-1035 or lindab@sopacnow.org. Learn more about the exhibition at https://www.sopacnow.org/gallery-exhibitions/

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FROM THE DOCTOR As the weather gets warmer people are hitting the golf course. Many injuries including Golfers Elbow or medial epicondylitis. Golfer’s elbow is a condition that causes pain where the tendons of your forearm muscles attach to the bony bump on the inside of your elbow. Golfer’s elbow, is caused by damage to the muscles and tendons that control your wrist and fingers. The damage is typically related to excess or repeated stress especially forceful wrist and finger motions. Improper lifting, throwing or hitting, as well as too little warmup or poor conditioning, also can contribute to golfer’s elbow. The pain might spread into your forearm and wrist. Symptoms include pain and tenderness on the inner side of your elbow, extending along the inner side of your forearm. Pain typically worsens with certain movements, Stiffness, Weakness and numbness or tingling. The numbness and tingling sensations might radiate into one or more fingers but most likely the ring and little fingers. Golfers elbow can happen to patients who play. Racket sports, baseball, softball, football, archery, weight lifting and javelin throwing also can cause golfer’s elbow. Occupational “golfer’s elbow” can occur in fields such as construction, plumbing and carpentry. There are several risk factors that can make the injury more prevalent such as smoking, obesity, overuse and (40+). In order to prevent this injury patients can strengthen their forearm muscles by using light weights or squeezing a tennis ball. This prevents overloading the muscles. Use the right equipment. Lift properly. When lifting anything keep your wrist rigid and stable to reduce the force to your elbow. At the first sign of elbow pain, take a break. In order to diagnose the injury an MD can take an x-ray or MRI to see if there is any tissue damage. There is usually a palpation exam to find where there is the most tenderness. There are options for treatment. Rest and stop repetitive activities until the pain is gone. If you return to activity too soon, you can worsen your condition. Apply ice packs to your elbow for 15 to 20 minutes at a time, three to four times a day for several days. This will help the inflammation. It might help to massage your inner elbow with ice for five minutes at a time, two to three times a day. Sometimes a doctor might recommend that you wear a counterforce brace on your affected arm, to reduce strain. Stretch and strengthen the affected area. Your Physical Therapist will suggest exercises to help build up the weak muscles. Modalities such as cold laser and ultrasound can further help to reduce the inflammation. Gradually return to your usual activities. When your pain is gone, practice the arm motions of your sport or activity. Review your golf or tennis swing with an instructor to ensure that your technique is correct and make adjustments if needed. Any questions, feel free to reach out to one of the Therapists at South Orange Rehab and Wellness or visit us at www.southorangerehab.com. Golfers Elbow

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FROM THE DOCTOR

Are You Dealing with a Pinched Nerve?

Our nerves spread throughout our body in an extensive network, with countless receptors that send information back to our brains about the world around us. They inform us when we lay our head on a soft pillow, when we feel the burn of a hot stove, and so much more. But what happens when our nerves are damaged? A pinched nerve is caused by compression of the tissues— things like bones, tendons, muscles, or cartilage — surrounding a nerve, which is then interpreted by the brain as pain, tingling, numbness, or weakness. Pinched nerves can happen anywhere in the body, but most commonly this condition occurs in the spine. Soft disks, which are the cushion between your vertebrae, can have pressure on them from an imbalance; an improper movement or sleeping incorrectly, causing pressure on the nerves in that area. Although there are many causes, including a slow gradual onset from poor posture or lifestyle, having a discussion or consultation with an expert is best. There are times that symptoms will resolve on their own. You should seek treatment for pain that is persistent or that grows progressively worse (even if you find the pain comes and goes with increased frequency). In some cases, a pinched nerve can become a bigger problem, by causing permanent nerve damage. It’s important to seek treatment sooner rather than later for a pinched nerve. To learn more about pinched nerves, check out our latest blog post, “Do I Have a Pinched Nerve?”, at www.southorangechiropractic.com. If you are experiencing pain, tingling, numbness, or other discomfort, book an appointment with our chiropractic team today.

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BROOKSIDE CONCERT SERIES Paper Mill is pleased to announce the return of its popular Brookside Cabaret. The outdoor series features world-class performers and fine dining under the stars at the F.M. Kirby Carriage House Restaurant.

Performances are presented Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, and Saturday evenings at 7:00pm (seating for dinner begins at 5:30pm).

Seating is $35 plus a $36 per person prix fixe menu. Bar seating is $20 plus a $25 food and drink minimum per person from an à la carte menu.

BROOKSIDE CABARET PERFORMERS

Jenna Pastuszek: Me, Myself & Barbra June 29–July 2 Acclaimed performer Jenna Pastuszek returns to the brookside stage with a fresh evening that features the early hits of superstar Barbra Streisand. Marieann Meringolo: Shades of Love July 6–9 Marieann Meringolo makes her much-anticipated return with a brand-new show, Shades of Love. Susan Speidel and Joe Regan July 13–16 Susan Speidel and Joe Regan are known for their jolly renditions of standards and show tunes. Alexander Kariotis July 20–23 Alexander Kariotis is one of the most distinctive operatic tenors on the international music scene. He is a top 10 Billboard artist and he appeared in the Broadway tour of Master Class alongside Elizabeth Ashley. Kelli Rabke: Tiny Giants: The Broadway Edition August 3–6 Kelli Rabke returns with her newest version of her hit cabaret show Tiny Giants: Petite Powerhouses from Garland to Gaga. Major Attaway August 10–13 Broadway vet Major Attaway, brings his upbeat and unique one-man show The Genie’s Jukebox. Elena Shaddow August 17–20 Elena Shaddow, lends her glorious soprano stylings to favorite Broadway tunes and love songs. The Playbillies: Bluegrass Broadway August 24–27 The Playbillies, Broadway’s bluegrass band, are comprised of Mike Rosengarten (banjo), Matt Cusack (bass), Armando Gutierrez (guitar), and Erica Swindell (fiddle). Belinda Allyn September 7–10 Belinda Allyn has become recognized as Paper Mill’s resident ingenue in recent years, having starred in several on stage Paper Mill productions. Kissy Simmons September 14–17 Vocal powerhouse Kissy Simmons, best known for her nine years as Nala in Broadway’s The Lion King and recently a star of Paper Mill’s own A Jolly Holiday, closes out the Brookside Cabaret season. Elizabeth Ward Land: Still Within the Sound of My Voice August 31–Sept 3 Elizabeth Ward Land with her ravishing Linda Ronstadt tribute concert.

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REAL ESTATE Maplewoodstock, a homage to the original Woodstock Festival of 1969, is returning this year after a two-year covid hiatus. The weekend long festival brings people together through the curation of live music, art, food and good vibes of shared positivity and support towards the community. Being a resident of South Orange for over 20 years, I know there is much to celebrate about our two town’s uniqueness and creative ventures. Maplewoodstock has evolved into becoming a grand medium for showcasing all that our locality has to offer and gives creators a platform to reach the community. I support South Orange and Maplewood’s musicians and artists because I believe our local art reflects the uniqueness and creative richness of our identity. Maplewood and South Orange’s colorful personality is evident through both the upbeat vibrancy of the festival and the attendance of the community. I personally believe what makes Maplewoodstock so special, year after year, is the sense of an unprecedented enthusiasm bustling throughout the festival. When I attend Maplewoodstock, I am surrounded by so many familiar and unfamiliar faces, I am warmed by the pride I feel to belong to such a display of community togetherness. As nostalgia persists after more than 50 years since the first Woodstock festival, I can confidently say that Maplewoodstock has, and will continue to create long lasting memories for the residents of our talented community.

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PREPARE YOURSELF FOR A LONG RETIREMENT

We all want to live long lives. We all expect to live long lives. But are we financially prepared for this longevity? Before we get to the issue of preparation, let’s look at a couple of interesting findings from a 2022 survey by Age Wave and Edward Jones: • The surveyed retirees said, on average, they expect to live to 89, and they said the ideal length of retirement is 29 years. • When asked if they want to live to 100, nearly 70% of the respondents said “yes.” The main reason for this desire for long life? To spend more years with their family and friends. If you’re going to enjoy a longer lifespan, and the extra years with your loved ones, you need to ensure your finances are also in good shape. Here are some basic steps to follow: • Save and invest early and often. This may be the oldest piece of financial advice, but it’s still valid. The earlier you start saving and investing for your retirement, the greater your potential accumulation. Consider this: If you began saving just $5,000 per year at age 25, and earned a hypothetical 6.5% annual rate of return, and didn’t take any early withdrawals, you’d end up with $935,000 by the time you reached 65. But if you waited until 35 to start saving and investing, and you earned the same hypothetical 6.5% return – again with no early withdrawals – you’d only end up with $460,000. And if you didn’t start saving until 45, you’d end up with just over $200,000, again given the same 6.5% return. • Be mindful of debt. You may not want to be burdened with certain debts when you enter retirement. So, while you’re still working, try to reduce unwanted debts, particularly those that don’t offer the financial benefits of tax-deductible interest payments. The lower your debt load, the more you can save and invest for the future. • Keep reviewing your progress. It’s important to monitor the progress you need to make toward achieving your goal of a comfortable retirement. Over the short term, your investment balances may fluctuate, especially in volatile financial markets such as we’ve seen this year. You get a clearer picture of your situation if you look at long-term results. For example, have your accounts grown over the past 10 years as much as you had planned? Moving forward, do you think you’re in good shape, or will you need to make some changes to your investment strategy? Keep in mind that, if you’re 50 or older, you can make “catch-up” contributions to your IRA and 401(k) that allow you to exceed the regular limits. You may also want to adjust your investment mix as you near retirement to potentially lower your risk exposure. Enjoy many years of a healthy, happy retirement. You can help support this vision by considering your financial moves and making the ones that are right for you.

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PROTECT CHILDREN WITH DISABILITIES When it comes to designing an estate plan there is no “one size fits all,” because each family is unique. You may have a young adult child with profound disabilities who will never be self-sufficient and will require extensive support. Or you may have a child who is developing a certain degree of independence with work activity or ability to live outside your home despite their physical or intellectual challenges, and you want to make sure that those capabilities are encouraged and supported. If you have a child with disabilities, advance planning is crucial for their protection. Maintaining eligibility for means-tested governmental programs like SSI, DDD, Section 8 and Medicaid may be vital. These programs have income limits and resource limits. You may want to include a Supplemental Needs Trust in your Will and direct the child’s share of life insurance, IRAs or other inheritances into that Trust. Although a general discretionary Trust or a support Trust may be appropriate for your other children, it could be disastrous for a child with disabilities by causing ineligibility. Are your parents thinking of excluding the disabled child from their estate plan for fear of disrupting benefits or because they think s/he “won’t need anything other than governmental benefits?” The availability of housing for intellectually disabled NJ residents has dried up. There may be long waiting lists for other services. Nursing or health care services may be limited. A carefully crafted Trust can supplement these absent benefits. One option is for your parents to include a supplemental needs Trust in their own Wills. Another option is that parents can establish a Supplemental Needs Trust now as a “stand by” Trust which can be funded by them or others from time to time. The Trustee -- who is often the parent-- sets up the Trust account with a minimal amount such as a $100. Your child’s grandparents can then periodically place gift money into that Trust. They could name it as a beneficiary of some percentage of their life insurance policy, or include a bequest to that Trust in their own Will. FAMILY ESTATE PLANNING

Written By Linda S. Ershow-Levenberg, Esq.

The author is an attorney focusing on special needs planning, elder law and estate planning. She can be reached at 732-382-6070. Her blog is www.FinkRosnerErshow-Levenberg Marinaro.com

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