My City February 2023

MYWEDDING

Genie Plucer

“Wow! So many factors go into working at a relationship. You have to pick your battles – most things are not worth arguing about! No one is perfect – you have to overlook faults and accept the other person for who they are. You cannot change someone or mold them to your expectations. Give when you don’t want to. Be loving and supportive. Put your mate first.” Mark & Genie ™ Married May 12, 1976

Shannon White

“Keep life fun! Apologize when you are wrong and even if you are a planner, be spontaneous to keep life interesting!”

Ridgway & Shannon ™ Married July 6, 2007

David Goldstein “So now, after 40 years of being to gether, you ask ‘What does it take?’ It’s about understanding the needs of one another, and then making compromises when those needs differ. In other words, there are two ways of doing things: Her way or Tiffany Stolzenfeld “For me, the secret is marrying your best friend; someone you enjoy spending every day with, whether it’s the mundane activities of life or the most amazing moments. I also view us as a united front – we always talk through

Shane Adams

“After 37 years together and 30 years of marriage, I would say our suc cess is based on a foundation of faith, family, love and loyalty. Anyone who knows us will tell you how committed

we are to each other and our family. I am so grateful for Liz and the family she has given me. She is an amazing mother and a very understanding and patient wife. Happy Valentine’s Day to my beautiful bride and the love of my life!” Liz Adams also shares her “Top 10” list: 1. Marriage is work, so work hard at it. 2. God brought us together, let no one break us apart. 3. Don’t compare your relationship to others – live “your” story. 4. Don’t make assumptions; communication is very important. 5. Laugh, have fun, be spontaneous. 6. Pray together. 7. Date nights are a must! 8. Enjoy life and make every day important. 9. Enjoy quiet time together. 10. Your spouse is your partner; respect, honor and love them. Marriage is not 50/50 it is 100/100. Shane & Liz ™ Married November 28, 1992 u

the wrong way – it always works better that way.” David & Denise ™ Married February 10, 1991

issues and decisions. We make an effort to value each other’s opinions and suggestions. We may not always agree, but respect and love each other to work toward a compromise.” George & Tiffany ™ Married October 11, 2008

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