My City February 2023

Chris Swanson

Patt Spangler

“Jamie opened the door of her apartment to me on July 2, 1993 wear ing a waist-length white shirt and tight blue jeans. Her beautiful blonde hair was complemented by her even brighter smile.That was our “first date” – we have never

“We’ve found the formula to be pretty simple: Be kind, be forgiving, be a good listener, and be best friends.” Jim& Patt ™ Married August 25, 1962

stopped dating! After 28 years of marriage, two adult boys educated and on their own, 30 years of policing, the pain of loss and unimag inable pressure, we’re still on our “first date.”You want to make it last? NEVER stop dating the one you love.We got married on 7.23.94 and we’ve celebrated the 23rd of EVERY month since then – a small gift, dinner or maybe just a note.” Chris & Jamie ™ Married July 23, 1994

Lennetta Coney

“Craig and I both agree that it first takes a commitment to WANT to make it last, while realizing that it will take work to honor your com mitment/vow.There is no easy way to blend two independent lives into one. Very

Rosanne Heddy

important to this mix is to really like and respect your partner as you lace these feelings with love. Additionally, it is impera tive to have a forgiving spirit while picking your disagreements and battles, and knowing when to step away. Finally for us: we have always approached our marriage with a spirit of teamwork.

“We believe the secret to making it last is to be a team.We enjoy doing things together.We work together, volunteer together, travel together and share the same interests.We are best friends and truly enjoy each other’s company.”

Success for one is overall success for ‘Team Us’.” Craig & Lennetta ™ Married July 5, 1986

Steve & Rosanne ™ Married December 3, 1966

Jackie Jablonski “The secret is communication. It sounds so cheesy, but is one of the most important elements of a rela tionship. Don’t wait to discover that they actually can’t read your mind (even though you believe they should be able to). Communicate your dreams, your desires and your feelings along

Leslie Toldo

“Talk! Talk about any problems for sure but talk about everything.The deepest friendships are based on good communication. Be honest, be kind, and do something unexpectedly wonderful for your spouse every now and then, too. I learned all of this from one of the smartest people I know: my husband.” Rick & Leslie ™ Married March 10, 2008

the way.This will serve you well through the years.” Michael & Jackie ™ Married August 8, 1981

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